Sleep Apnea Treatment

Question by Sherry: How can an untreated aneurysm last for over eleven years without bursting ?
A close friend of mine claims an aneurysm was discovered on an X-ray in 1999 after a car wreck. He has not had surgery or treatment for it. If this is true, how is it that it hasn’t disected.

He also has had for many years:

Congestive heart failure
Severe asthma
Cellulitis of the legs
Sleep apnea
Obesity (well over 300 pounds)

Given all these conditions at once, how has he survived for so long. Since 2002 he had kept telling me his time was “short” until two years ago. He is now 65 years old. He has stopped telling me that because he knows I won’t believe him. Am I wrong in being suspicious about his sicknesses.

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Answer by herblaura
sounds like he has obesity-related problems, but is also a bit of a hypochondriac

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Question by : I have had strange “hiccups” for 15 years, could they be Tourettes Syndrome? How does TS manifest?
I dehydrated and had reversible liver damage 15 years ago. It was a very traumatic ordeal. It took about two weeks to recover, and when I did I started “hiccuping”. I may have between 50-200 per day, less if I do not eat, and more if I eat carbohydrates and sugars. I itch a lot, however, not in the same places and not in any order. In doing some research on the subject I remember reading that there has to be several different tics to be considered Tourettes.
I have seen two neurologists and neither would diagnose it. My brother was diagnosed with TS at about 8 y/o.
I also have Sleep Apnea and Hypopnea, while sleeping only (as far as I know). My pulmonologist seems to think that the hiccups are caused by acid reflux. I take 2 Tums twice a day and so far have done one two week treatment of Nexium, without any relief. I had surgery for a deviated septum, after which, the hiccups seemed to have lessened slightly.
I will be having another nose and throat surgery in the next few months. The Dr. would like to see less episodes still. I went from 80 apneas to 20 each night. I wonder if the increased oxygen has been helpful in reducing the hiccups or if it has been psychosomatic.
I do not think that these are really hiccups, however, I do not have a better description for them other than an annoying “tic”. Can a traumatic event suddenly cause Tourettes?

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Answer by ?
no its not ts

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Question by mommy mia: 3 years old with sleep apnea- enlarged adenoids?
ok. so my son is almost three- he was a breastfed baby and co- slept until he was 15 months old. He was never a good sleeper.. it has taken everything to get him sleeping in his own bed. But for the most part we thought that we had spoiled him and created bad sleeping habits. The nap got cut out at 2 and a half. Even though I missed that “break” in the middle of the day he was passing out quickly and by 8:30 at night. But he wakes up 4-5 times a night. It drives me and my husband crazy. My husband is convinced there is a voodoo curse on us.
How come our 18 month old wakes only once and this older one is still crying throughout the night? I went to the docs and told her that he wakes this much and that he must have sleep apnea from enlarged adenoids or something. She agreed that his adenoids were swollen and gave him nasonex. He is still waking up about twice a night but now since he is sleeping longer stretches he wants to wake up every morning at 5. We cant function. We have an appointment with an ENT next week. I am afraid they are going to want to do the surgery to remove his adenoids and then… it wont work. Is it him? Is it sleep habits? Can the adenoids really interupt the sleep this much?
anyone out there in a similar situation with the adenoids? Did it make a huge improvement?

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Answer by siesteph
my daughter had extremely large adenoids(textbook large–apparently) ….it did not affect her sleep quite that way…..she just snored !! LOTS and LOTS of snoring…….almost louder than her dad snores lol

we had her tonsils and adenoids out a few years ago…..no more snoring (she’s 13 now)

now, my 3 yr old wakes up a few times a night (almost nightly)….but she is having bad dreams…:(
some nights she sleeps right thru…but there are nights when she is up 3 and 4 and even 5 times…..having bad dreams (she tells us this)

Good Luck Darlin’
2nd opinions don’t hurt

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Question by Karen: Do I turn my back on my marriage of 22 years or stick it out. He suffers from depression and has done for 6yrs?
The question may seem harsh, but the reality is I am not happy. My husband has always been very deep, and never really opened up in all the years we have been together, I suppose it was that air of mystery that attracted me to him first. Over the years we have gone through good and bad, but for the past 6 years I can see little good times had. His depression first happened 15 yrs ago, but it soon passed, this time it has stayed, he drinks regularly, something I have asked him to cut back on or stop, but he refuses, even though for our 3 children it is not a good example. He started smoking at 43. I am 44 he is 45. I have smoked on and off all my life, he hated it, but now smokes more than me. Apart from the cost it is not good for him, or I. He also suffers from severe Sleep Apnea. This is not helped with him being overweight, smoking and drinking. Again I have asked him to loose weight, but he blames his medication for alot of what has happened. He is a shift worker, and has to get up at 5.00 am. He therefore goes to bed around 7.30 – 8.30 at night. We therefore do not go to bed together most nights, and our sex life is virtually non existent. He used to in the early years of our marriage be the one that wanted sex, 3 or 4 times a week. He now does not seem interested at all? We very raley kiss, or cuddle anymore. We are like two people living together but miles apart. He knows how I feel, as I have said that if things do not improve I do not want to carry on living like this, and tough decisions will have to made about our marriage. Nothing seems to change though. He says that I am too controlling, but I have had to carry him, and look after the welfare of our 3 children 19,14 & 12 for the past 6 years, I have felt like a single parent for most of that time. Others tell me to walk away or throw him out. We have been to councelling a couple of times but nothing changes, as we do not put into practice what we have been told. He is regularly seen by a phyciatrist and his medication is constant, without it his mood would alter. I know it takes two to work at a marriage, god knows I have over the years, but there comes a point when decisions have to be made, we are all a long time dead, and I do not want to waste anymore time waiting for something to change. I love my husband, but feel no connection at present, very lonley, and thinking about having an affair. What should I do?
Something I forgot to mention, my husband has always had a dark side to him, something I knew about before we married, he used to chat on internet chat sites, phone chat, or chat box tv. All made me feel upset. why prefer to chat to a stranger, rather than your own wife. For many years on and off I would find txt messages etc from women who thought they were talking to a single bloke. I have recently been receiving emails from young russian ladies wanting a english husband. I managed to contact one of them, and explained that my husbands email address was sold to them by an agency. How did it get there unless he has searched for them?

I love my children very much, I would not want to do anything to hurt them, that is why I have forgiven or turned a blind eye to the above absurd behaviour. But in doing so, am I damaging them more? I understand that no child wants their mum or dad to part, but living in a hostile unhappy home surely in worse, than a single home full of love and
I am reading with interest all your thoughts. When we sit down and talk it just gets messy and tempers flare. I don’t think either of us want it to be over, we have known each other since we were 18. So young, and he was all that I ever wanted. Hurts so much to think the man I loved, doesn’t resemble the man he is know. I have changed too, I very rarely laugh anymore my kids see it, and tell me sort it out, they worry I worry. Just really lost of what to do, and how to get through to him that we are at the end of the line.
Just to answer the comment, that I am not supportive of his depression? I have done all in my power to support him, even at the point when he was about to loose his job over the amount of time he was off sick. I fought tooth and nail to support him, and eventually he was given his job back. Where is his fight to show his love for me, and respect the strong women that I am? Or does he perceive I am just a doormat, who he is able to do anything too, without me reacting? Depression/alcohol abuse is destructive. His mum suffers from depression too, and was a heavy drinker, until I confronted her with a few home truths, this let her to seek help, she no longer drinks, and is a better person for it. I know it sounds big headed, but I saved his mother from destruction, surely my husband should respect me more not less. You only allow others to treat you in a way that allow, by putting your foot down you show respect for yourself. Is that not true. I am very angry most of the time, w
To be clear, my husband does suffer from Clinical depression, yes he is on constant, if not life-long medication, and yes I am aware of my marriage vows, for better or for worse. If you have never suffered, or lived with someone with depression, then you can only scratch the surface of what this illness does to a relationship. I understand how difficult it is for my husband at times, but it is also difficult for me and his children too, what about their relationship with their dad, and their memories of growing up, I can’t sit and do nothing, but he has to realize no one can help him get better until he decides he wants to do something. Also in your comment of smoking, I have given up smoking before, but he says its my choice and carries on regardless, even after our daughter cried and said she did not want daddy to die, he just dismissed her concerns and carried on.

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Answer by Ryan
As a 16 year old that would be the last thing I wanted my Parents to do

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Question by ei_beachhouse: Depression and Anxiety- I have been married for 20 years and my wife has just?
filed for divorce. Actually, she told me in March 2008 that she could no longer take our life together and that if I didn’t do something about myself, our marriage would be over. In normal fashion for myself I felt threatened and acted as though she was to blame for the failure.

I suffer from severe sleep apnea plus a very stressful job which has been a recipe for disaster for many years. At her request saw a psycholgist who in my opinion had seen her better years and was totally unhelpul. After this failed relationship with the counselor, I gave up hope on the counseling and focused on getting my physical health better as the apnea had helped me gain 75 pounds last year and thus I was slippin deeper and deeper into depression.

In September my wife asked me to move out and I totally freaked out. I would call her 12 times a day and beg her to change her mind. She told me I had not done anything to get better mentally and I simply thought this was a huge game on her part. I became paranoid of another man etc. She stated she needed space to clear her thoughts as we have 2 children and she’s truly a great mother. I then consulted in a few friends that gave their uneducated opinion on women who need space and they all said “you’re done when women say this”. I never should have listened to this advice as I’ve later learned she was needing space to clear her head and I simply was freaking out thinking the world was ending. I’d call and yell at her then turn right around and tell her I love her. Obviouly irrational thinking. I cursed in front of my two beautiful children etc. and that was all she could take and she filed for divorce. Upon receiving the papers I wanted to commit suicide so I drove myself straight to the closest mental health hospital I could find.

I spent 7 days there and learned SO MUCH about myself. I learned I have been depressed for many years and that I had had a nervous breakdown and my actions over the past year could have been fixed with medication and therapy had I just taken the step faster.

I’m now seeing a therapist weekly and taking medication. My mind is clear and my mood swings are ending. I see totally why my wife just couldn’t live with me any longer as I wouldn’t want my children to have spouses like I had became.

My situation is this. Our marriage won’t go to the courts until April. My wife has agreed to sit down and talk to me. She is a terrific person but like myself and so many others, I don’t think she will understand the whole mental health issue and it’s treatability. I do understand as I have acted very irrational but so much was due to not sleeping for years mixed with severe depression.

I really hate to see this marriage of 20 years and friendship of 23 years end due to something I’m told is very controllable.

Any suggestions on what to say when we get together in a few weeks?

Any further details would glady be given at ei_beachouse@yahoo.com

Thanks,!

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Answer by Peace
Let her know you realise where you went wrong. That your time spent away from her as been time you’ve been using to improve yourself. That you saught help for your problems, and ‘your ready to be the husband that she needs’ that you love her and your children and want to be in there lives and that your sorry and would like another chance. Tell her you understand this is a choice she has to make on her own and that you will give her as much time as she needs to think about it. That this doesn’t have to mean a divorce, and you’re willing to work through any unresolved problems.

Hope that helps.

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