Can a good dad get some advice?
Posted by: Alan in Sleep Apnea Treatment, tags: Advice, Good, SomeQuestion by Shooting Star: Can a good dad get some advice?
My ex wife is crazy… We were married for 4 years separated for 2 of those years and now we are divorced. In the first two years of marriage we had a daughter.
I have moved on in a relationship, but prior to this relationship my ex and I were on good terms. We were able to have conversations, I would go over and cook have family dinners, cut the grass. After all my daughter still lives in that home so i try to keep up maintenance. I have had girlfriends ( they were black women our age 35) which she knew about while we were separated no problem/no drama at all. ( I pay child support/insurance see my daughter every day I teach at her school, I take her to extra curricular activities pay for them or go half…I am a FULLY INVOLVED IN HER LIFE)
My current girlfriend is really incredible she has changed my life nice attractive 10 years younger, and bi racial black/mexican dating for almost a year She has converted me to be a vegetaraian and I have lost 50 lbs excersise regularly no cholestorl issues, no sleep apnea and more eco friendly. She barely met my daughter and my ex. MY EX WENT CRAZY. She has tried to put a restraining order on me so i can’t see my, but she didn’t succeed. She tells my 4 year old daughter daddy loves his gf more than you, told my 4 year old daddy only thinks bright skin girls are pretty and she tells my family I am a liar, I don’t ever see our daughter, My gf is my only priority, i joined a cult because I am a vegetarian .. NOW when my daughter is with me she eats a vegetarian diet. In both my ex family and i have lots of medical issues related to food/obesity ( my ex is over weight and since this whole drama began she has put on more weight) so why not introduce something healthy to her life… That i am doing a fashion trend dating “outside my race” I am black, ex is black… my g/f is half black…
She is involving everyone in our business… her pastor her parents, our daughter my family she has created fake fb accounts to snoop on gf page..sent messages to her friends and family saying she is a slut that she is on drugs (which she isn’t) I became a member of her chuch which isn’t a cult lol and the thing is my gf doesn’t disturb call text or email her not at all…
o yea I don’t encourage my daughter to watch tv when she is with me because I feel books/ playing outside/ arts and crafts are far better for her brain and my ex thinks its part of a cult because we don’t watch tv really… My daughter goes and tells her mom i don’t let her watch tv… I let her watch movies every now and then but tv is filth now a days
what should i do to help my daughter and i don’t want this to scare my gf away?
She has take me to court to have my g/f blocked the judged denied the claim she didn’t have any basis, then she took me to court to ammend our divorce so she can have any piece of “future Business” judge denied it then she asked for child support raise and for me to pay for daughters college..judge denied it all all this is 4 months!!!!!!!
Best answer:
Answer by SugarCat
It sounds like your ex is jealous of your new gf because she can see what a good affect she is having on you, because you are changing because of her, and because she can see that you are serious about your gf and really in love with her. She might feel threatened.
I’m assuming you’ve tried talking to her. Try again. I do have one new suggestion for you, though. Try talking to HER pastor. You said she’s already talked to him. If you talk to him and he sees you are legitimately trying to be good to her and be a good father, he may be able to talk some sense into her. Perhaps the two of you could even go to see him together. It’s worth a try.
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