*When you cheat on us and you expect us to “get over it” when if the same thing happened in the reverse, you’d leave the relationship.

*When you lie to us and will swear on a stack of bibles that you’re telling the truth, then get upset with US when we have the audacity to call you out on your lies – - – and men lie ALOT.

*When you expect the majority of work, issues to be handled by your wife or girlfriend while you escape to your “man-cave”.

*When you take the posture on a problem that “Ah, it will all work out eventually”…. NEWSFLASH, gentleman: it is very likely that your wife or girlfriend is the one that is “working it out FOR you” while you sit back and relax.

*When your mother or annoying relative comes into town and you have something else planned so you pawn your relative off on your poor wife or girlfriend who probably already has a laundry list of to-do’s.

*If you have ever uttered the words, “Go talk to my wife (to whomever)” or “Go ask your mother (to your child)” in reply to a question you may be trying to weasel out of, rest assured you have just made your woman crazy as a result of your ineptitude or indecision.

*When you let your woman take the fall for something you should have been responsible for.

*When the baby cries and you roll over into your sleep apnea slumber because you figure that’s woman’s work even though that baby belongs to you too.

*When you expect your woman to read your mind then get irritated with us if we were not successful at it. You blame us for this idiosyncracy, but you guys do it alot too.

*When you openly oogle another woman – - – we know that this is the nature of you, but we want you to oogle us the same way you did when you met us. When you don’t, yeah, that makes us a little crazy.

*When you’re bored of us, yet you stay in the relationship alot longer than you should. Don’t you think we can tell that you’re “dis-engaged”? If you’re bored – - LEAVE. When you stay around us in that state of mind, you make us crazy because we know you don’t want us anymore.

Lastly, when you put us through any number of uncomfortable situations year after year, speak at us in a loud tone when you’re over-anxious about something as if it’s all our fault, expect the world from us yet give half of that in return, well…..that makes us crazy over time. It may not be true in all cases of couplehood out there, but remember that the behaviors that you inflict on a person AFFECTS a person, be that a wife, a co-worker or whomever. As your women, yes – - we love you but you do drive some of us crazy. Own it and don’t be so quick to say, “Women are crazy” for as the great Chris Rock himself said, “Behind every great man is a woman who put up with alot of
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MEN, does any of this make sense to you, what do you have to say to this? 10 points for the most insightful and interesting response.

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Answer by Douggie B
Woah… Lady you are CRAZY !!!

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Sleep apnea is very, very common… don’t panic. Most likely they will institute something called “cpap” or “bipap” for your child if they determine she does definitely have it. Its essentially a breathing device that you wear on your face ( either nose, mouth or both) that provides a pressure (like a string wind) of air to your childs airway while she sleeps, to prevent the soft tissues in her throat from collapsing and causing apnea. While it sounds terrifying, its actually incredibly common in both children and adults. Do some research on “CPAP” and “BIPAP” and ask your physician what your child is definitely being diagnosed with and what interventions will be necessary. Ask lots and lots of questions until you feel you have e solid understanding of what your childs needs will be. But don’t panic…. sleep apnea is super common and can be treated. Hang in there..

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Answer by Dolphin_Blue21
Seen as how no one has answered this yet for you…

I haven’t had any personal experience with such things but….
If you really are concerned what it is all about and would like more information on what to expect I would recommend talking to your local baby clinic as they should be able to give you all the information that you require and offer you some suggestions on how to deal with everything.

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Answer by Charlie Horse
SHE IN GO TO EMERNCGY ROOM TO HOSPITAL NOW?

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I’ve never had sex, or a girlfriend. I don’t masturbate, since it was an exercise in futility. I can ejaculate but it’s never felt “good”. I don’t think about having sex, but I recollect that normal, healthy guys think about sex once every 10 seconds. (!) I cannot force myself to picture a sex act, its like my mind has to jump past it. But, I do obsess about my inability … every day I think about how I’m inferior. This makes me wonder if there is somebody out there to talk to about this. Sex therapy is about couples, so that’s not for me. Is there help out there?

I have sought help for depression, poor sleep, and low testosterone.

I suffer from chronic depression (severe, if you believe online tests). Over the past 20 years, I’ve seen two psychoanalysts and a psychologist for therapy. Primary care physicians and a psychiatrist have subscribed 1/2-dozen anti-depressants, mostly SSRIs. Neither therapy nor drugs have helped. I’ve also tried herbal supplements, kept a diary with thought analysis, improved exercise, and adopted two cats.

I’ve also attacked the poor sleep aspect (depression can cause sleep problems or vica versa). I had a sleep study, but they were only interested in finding obstructive sleep apnea (which they did, and I’ve been using a CPAP for the last two years without fail). I’m taking care to exercise good sleep hygene, tried sleep aides (nytol, melatonin, zolpidem, etc.), got a new mattress, prop up legs, and have a wedge pillow for my head. Nothing works.

My testosterone did test low (~190 ng/ml, normal 300-800). I saw an endocrinologist (and, typical for a doctor, couldn’t find a cause) who prescribed hormone replacement with patches (vs. gel or shots). I did try the patches, which didn’t make me feel different but I did get a rash.

What’s left to try? I’m 40 years old, and thinking that I should just give up.

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Answer by Mary
it is because of your depression. Fix depression and you’ll be like other men

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Answer by veritatum dilexi
It could be apnea. Try sleeping on your side from now on and see what happens. Someone has to record (video and audio) you sleeping and show it to your doctor.

Apnea usually runs in families. It could be a lot of different problems, too many to go into here and too complicated to describe.

Record; show doctor; get relief.

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Answer by aWellWisher
Periodic limb movement disorder (PLMD) and restless legs syndrome (RLS) are distinct disorders, but often occur simultaneously. Both PLMD and RLS are also called (nocturnal) myoclonus, which describes frequent or involuntary muscle spasms.
At this site you may post questions and get answers.
http://www.sleepdisorderchannel.com/rls/index.shtml
I feel sorry for you, your sleep must also be disturbed frequently. Hope you find a solution for his condition.
Good luck!

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Snoring* when asleep– sleep apnea* :
1. Opium-30c, Sil-12x.
2. Snoring only when on back : Drosera-30c
•Dosage*: 4 globules t.d.s.
•All these biochemic salts/homeo medicines available @ local Homoeo shops, are safe and with side benefits. Don’t swallow medicine. The medicine to be dissolved on/under the tongue. Don’t take any thing 10 minutes before and 10 minutes after medication. You can take water.

3. Acupressure techniques— Utility—Blocked energy + toxins shall be moved from all Ur internal organs to purge in the normal drainage system, i.e., urine, feces, sweat, cough, menses[ladies], vomiting and all the organs shall function up to optimal levels.
Utility—Blocked energy + toxins shall be moved from all Ur internal organs to purge in the normal drainage system, i.e., urine, feces, sweat, cough, menses[ladies], vomitting and all the organs shall function upto optimal levels
•Acupressure Techniques—NO MEDICATION. NO SIDE EFFECTS. NO HOSPITALIZATION. NO COSTS. IT IS SAFE ALSO.
With ur thumb, press ur/his/her palms and soles, wrists and ankles on both sides. Suppose pain is felt while pressing a particular point in the palm/sole, u have to press the surrounding area—just like u r pumping out air from that painful point. The blocked energy in any internal organ, be it lungs, heart, stomach, kidneys, pancreas, liver, etc., shall be released along with toxins if any. As a last point u must press middle part of each palm/sole; so that toxins, if any, shall be excreted/purged through urine without affecting the kidneys.
It should be done in an empty stomach or 2 hours after meals. With this, all the endocrine glands and their hormonal secretions shall be regulated. All internal organs shall function up to optimal levels. Ur entire immune sytem gets invigorated to produce antibodies.
Remote control Acupressure points given by the God. For Treatment, hard-pressure is to be applied on & around these points with Ur thumb and middle finger.
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Dorsal side of Palms & soles:

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•4. Consumption of Charged water—Gold-best brain tonic and antibiotic, silver-to remove excess heat from the body and ensures optimum functioning of Kidneys, Copper-best tonic for /muscular & nervous strength and Iron-to increase hemoglobin levels in the blood.
•2 glasses reduced from 8 glasses. It ensures excellent metabolism in the body.
•How to prepare High-powered concentrated gold/silver/copper charged water:Take 15 gms. of pure gold (biscuit gold) 30 gms. of pure silver and 60 gms of pure copper clean and put them in a stainless steel vessel with 8 glasses of water and heat it until it is reduced to ½ glass (on evaporation). The derived high-powered, concentrated charged water has to be filtered through a thin cotton cloth and should be consumed hot or Luke warm; depending upon patient’s choice all along the day. This charged water should not be heated again but to be stored in a thermos flask.
Due to money/time constraints, if it is not feasible to prepare charged water @ home, you have a substitute. Take 10 ml., each of Aurum Met-30, Argentim Met-30, Cuprum Met-30 and Ferrum Met-30 and put the liquids/dilutions in a glass bottle and cork it well. Dosage—5 drops [adults] and 3 drops for children below 14 years + 1 cup of ot water—b.d.s. or so to say twie a day in the morning and in the night.

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‘Health In Ur Hands’ by Dr.Devendra Vora,D.Sc.,M.D.,F.R.C.P., an octogenarian & the pioneer in Acupressure in India.
Dr.Vora, the world renowned Acupressurist, an octogenarian and the Bhishma Pithamaha of acupressure in India— treated and caused to treat more than 150000 cases of Cancer, HIV/AIDS, Diabetes, irregular menses and also many other most dreaded diseases—Dr.Devendra Vora has analyzed that pressure applied on certain points located on the palms and soles helps to stimulate all organs of the body, prevents disease and assists in maintaining good health. Acupressure also helps to diagnose, prevent and cure diseases like common cold, Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, Migraine, Paralysis, and even cancer, HIV/AIDS. Autism, Thalassemia, Muscular Dystrophy, all brain and spinal cord affected diseases.

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She has severe difficulty breathing even a few steps. I do mean severe difficulty breathing. She has also been given oxygen therapy via a nasal cannula. Unfortunately she becomes so terribly out of breath that she breathes through her mouth so the oxygen is of no real benefit. She becomes so weak that she nearly collapses.

What are the repercussions of not taking these nebulizer treatments or using the CPAP machine?

She is unable to sleep in her bed because if she lays down she cannot breathe. She has not been honest with her doctor about any of this. He evidently believes she is taking her breathing treatments and using her CPAP machine.

She has severe pitting edema as well, for which she has been prescribed lasix with no significant relief.

I anticipate that she will have an episode one day of respiratory failure. I am needless to say at my wits end trying to figure out just what to do.

I do not think she understands just how significant these treatments are and the repercussions that this could all cause. Any suggestions?
I should have stated that she does indeed have a BiPap. She flatly refuses to use the BiPap machine. She does not believe that she has Sleep Apnea. She feels that everyone that goes for a sleep study is automatically diagnosed with sleep apnea. I have tried to talk to her on numerous occasions about this to no avail.

She uses the oxygen but it really isn’t doing her any good considering she is unable to close her mouth to breath through the nasal cannula.

I tried once again to convince her of the benefits of using the nebulizer yesterday but she is adamant about not using it either.

I am contemplating contacting her physician without her knowledge to see if perhaps he could intervene and get her to understand the severity of her condition. Thanks for your responses. It helps to know that I am not on the wrong track with this and that my suspicions are accurate.

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Answer by Serietah
I’m sorry to be so blunt, but quite plainly she will die without treatment. She’s an adult, so as long as she is of sound mind, she is legally able to refuse treatments. As long as she understands that by not following the doctors’ orders she will die, there’s not much you can do. She may just need her doctor to really sit down and explain everything to her again. Good luck!

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Answer by MA
Well then, thats……interesting.

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