when im in bed, it takes 3 or sometimes more hours to sleep..
especially when i go to bed earlier than usual it gets even worse because i cant sleep the whole night and my sleep just runs away!
and in the morning i feel so much tired like all of my bones ache!
what should i do?

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22 Responses to “Have A Sleep Disorder… Help Me? :(?”
  1. Foamy4Pr says:

    Ive suffered from severe insomnia for 12 years here are some tips ive used, some may not apply to you, some may, it depends on the reason your not able to sleep.
    First off, make sure your room is an environment fit for sleep. Dont do anything in your room except sleep unless you have to, ie dont use it as your central hang out. You want the air to be cool, the room dark, have warm blankets, proper pillows. If you need some form of white noise, fans, wave makers, noise machines are the best, do not watch tv or listen to the radio as the disturb your sleep.
    Before bed, do something soothing, warm bath, read a book and drink some caffein free tea , even warm water with lemon will help. Being on your computer before bed is actually bad as it stimulates your mind and can keep you from relaxing. Also make sure you go to bed at the same time every night, it is crutial in making a sleep pattern.
    You can also try melotonin, which is completely natural, but again, use it at the same time every night, and go to bed at the same time every night. Exercising in the evenings is good as well, make sure your done at least an hour before bed, and take a long soothing, warm shower the heat will help relax and tire you out. A glass of red wine is a nother option instead of tea, if you want to go that way, make sure its red, and only one glass, to much will disturb your sleep pattern, and one glass a day has health benefits as well.
    If none of those work, you can try over the counter sleep aids such as tylenol PM, or some of the more specific sleep ones.
    If those dont work, talk to your DR. Ambien and Lunesta are probably the best on the market.
    If anxiety is causing you to not sleep:
    if you have a set time you have to wake up in the morning, make sure you set your alarms well before you have to be up, that way if you sleep through it a little bit, of if you have to press the snooze, you dont have to stress out about being late, and you can take your time in the morning.

  2. Foamy4Pr… says:

    ask your doctor about Lunesta.
    i may sound like a commerical but it actually works!

  3. Elena says:

    there are many potential reasons for problems falling asleep. are you taking caffiene and/or sugar in the afternoon? if so, then try to cut that out of your diet.
    stress and anxiety of the overall pressures in life may also be causing you difficulty. i took some stress management and relaxation classes and this has helped me learn how to park my problems and worry about them at other times.
    try to have a calming winding down session at night. you can’t go from a busy activity right into sleep. try to do some quiet reading for 30 minutes before falling asleep.
    as strange as this one may sound, masturbating is actually a good way to relax and get yourself ready to sleep.
    doctors i have visited have been reluctant to perscribe sleeping pills. but there are over the counter pills such as benadryl and herbal sleep remedies that have helped me quite a bit too.

  4. Jeff says:

    why not take a sleeping pill.also have you tryed to go to the doctor to get advice from him/her .

  5. lizzy j says:

    Right before you go to sleep, drink a glass of milk with a piece of lettuce. It really helps!!!! Try it.

  6. hello is it me your lookin for?? says:

    Go to the doctor. I went most of my life thinking barely sleeping at night was just normal. I’ve not been able to sleep well since I was a child. I finally went to the Doctors and they put me on Ambian CR which worked well for me because I have trouble falling asleep and then staying asleep. My lack of sleep for so many years caused health problems and more pain in my body. I suggest you do what you need to like seeing a doctor before you get ill from lack of sleep. Your body can not perform well when its consistantly not getting rest.

  7. Aunt Tita says:

    Okay I’m gonna give you some good quality science here.
    1) When we sleep our brains emit theta and alpha waves
    2) when we are awake
    To combat sleep probs:
    1) EXERCISE – this SERIOUSLY AIDS SLEEP
    2) make sure it is COMPLETELY DARK in the room – coz a hormone called MELATONIN is released in the dark – if there is even a bit of light this hormone (which helps sleep) will completely not work
    3) During the day you should gET AS MUCH FRESH AIR AS POSSIBLE – like as much sunlight – well, because the more sunlight you get, the more your hormons benefit
    4) in the morning AS SOON as you ake up, open the CURTAINS immediately – you will be ‘zapped’ immediately
    5) Random thoughts running around in the head? Okay I’ll give an example.
    Like
    After you replay the slowed down thought, you can play it over and over again even
    slower, making it shorter and shorter every time, until it fades completely. ie:
    My boss is such a jerk…
    My boss is such a…
    My boss is…
    My bo…..
    M….
    6) Drink less alcohol and caffeine – seems obvious. People use alcohol as a nightcap – COUILD not be worse kids. It inteferes with sleep
    7) If you currently wake up feeling like the lowest form of sewer sh*t – (with me it was a regular) then do the following
    * check your alarm clock. If you wake up everyday – feeling tossy, then set alarm clock 1/2 hr back (sleep @ night @ normal time, but wake up a BIT earlier. See if that works for a week. Find a time that suits yur body. And if work is a problem. Don’t waste time – prepare everything in the day and at night so you can relax in the morning. Waking up primarily depends on the body temperature
    * when planning a bath – have it 1 hr BEFORE bed – not straight before – so body temperature can lower and you can sleep easily
    * chamomile tea – or ‘hop’ tea
    * Smoking can do A LOT more damage than good
    * YOu need to make sure you are HYDRATED in the da – or ou will die of dehydration at night and NOT be able to sleep
    * body loses approx 12cups of water in the day – se stock up – or will not let you sleep (make sure you pee before sleeping though)
    * Eat very lightly at night- then there won’t be strain on he digestive system – therefore you will easily sleep
    * Don’t sleep on your front
    * Too many thoughts- try ‘wiping your thought away’
    Oh no, what am I going to wear tomorrow?
    Visualize your slowly wiping the thought off the chalk board, leaving it completely
    blank.
    Also:
    If you’re lying in bed and you get the urge to toss or turn, wait it out, you’ll be
    surprised how quickly it fades! When you get the urge to toss and turn, ask yourself
    “How can I focus on something else right now to feel more relaxed?” As you lie there
    for about 15 seconds, you’ll be surprised at how the urge to toss and turn simply
    fades, and you realize that all you really want to do is relax.
    Understand that if you do start tossing and turning, it will not end with just ONE toss
    or turn, because of the momentum effect, you will just keep tossing and turning till
    the break of dawn!
    Sometimes the urge to move is really intense, or maybe you really are in a very
    painful position on your bed. If you absolutely MUST move, do it in this way:
    1) Move, but move very slowly. Remember what it feels like when you wake up in the
    morning and you’re very sleepy, do you move very quickly then?
    2) As you move very slowly, put a big bright smile on your face, and take a deep
    breath.
    Another reason why tossing and turning keeps us awake is because we do it very
    quickly, and the more we do it, the more it agitates us! So do it very slowly, and
    make sure to smile and breath deeply, you will feel the difference :-)
    This is imp:
    Got into bed and can’t SLEEP – tossign and turning FOR hours??
    Sleep Restriction
    Sleep restriction is perhaps the most powerful technique to battle short term
    insomnia and chronic insomnia. The rule of sleep restriction is simple:
    If you can’t fall asleep and you lie awake in your bed for longer than 30 minutes, get
    out of bed! Stay out of bed until you feel a tired sensation coming over you, and then
    go back to bed.
    This works because it interrupts your pattern of thinking. If you’ve been lying awake
    in bed for longer than 30 minutes, your mind is racing, and you can’t relax. Chances
    are you’re not going to suddenly get hit over the head and relax instantly. You’ve
    simply created too much negative momentum and it’s keeping you awake! This is
    why getting up and out of bed is the best way to interrupt this. Getting out of bed is a
    great way to clear your mind, and get the feeling of drowsiness back in you.
    Sleep Restriction will also help restore proper bed associations (see below)
    Poor Bed Associations
    Have you ever had this happen to you?
    Powerful Sleep – Secrets of the Inner Sleep Clock
    by Kacper M. Postawski, PowerfulSleep.com
    Copyright © 2004 PowerfulSleep.com All Rights Reserved
    44
    It’s the end of the day, and you feel tired… perhaps you’re even yawning a little. You
    get into your pajamas, turn off the light, climb into the bed, and all of a sudden you’re
    wide awake and you don’t feel tired anymore?! This is a very common experience for
    anyone with sleeping problems. It’s a result of poor bed associations.
    As we’re going through our day, our minds link certain experiences to emotions or
    states of mind, this happens without us even being aware of it. In hypnosis and NLP
    (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) this is referred to as state anchoring.
    An anchor is an experience, a taste, touch, smell, or sound that instantly recreates
    an emotional state in your body. For example, do you have a favorite song that
    makes you feel a certain way? As you’re reading this, try to remember that song.
    Doesn’t it seem that whenever you hear the song those emotions just come flooding
    right into you? This happens because at some point in time you heard that song for
    the first time, at that point you were feeling that way, and those emotions became
    anchored to that song.
    Often when people can’t sleep they try reading a book or watching TV in bed to
    induce sleepiness, these actions actually make insomnia even worse. Not only does
    watching TV keep your conscious mind awake and racing, it anchors feelings of
    wakefulness to your bed. This gets your mind to associate that your bed is a place
    where you “think,” not sleep. This completely disturbs the natural sleep response.
    Your bed should ONLY be used for sleeping and sexual activity, nothing else.
    A lot of people use their bed and their bedroom for a variety of purposes. People
    also tend to have heated emotional arguments with our spouse/significant other in
    the bedroom, this is a huge no no, as you link major feelings of frustration to the bed!
    (this isn’t good in any way!)
    Avoid using your bedroom as an office, a workout room, or a storage area. Stay off
    your bed during the day, don’t lie on the bed when you’re talking on the phone.
    Keep tyhe bed only for these 2 things
    Room Temperature
    Your room temperature can also affect your sleep. It can affect your ability to fall
    asleep, as well as the quality of your sleep.
    If you currently sleep in a very hot or humid room, you may experience trouble with
    sleeping deeply as your body will have difficulty lowering your body temperature.
    Naturally your body temperature will not fall as quickly either and your natural sleep
    response may be interrupted.
    Studies show that falling asleep in a cool room with an easy atmosphere is much
    easier than falling asleep in a hot environment. You also sleep more deeply when
    you’re in a cool environment.
    Take this advice, but not to an extreme! Obviously, if turn your temperature down to
    the point where you’re FREEZING, falling asleep might be difficult, as your body tries
    to raise your temperature in order to survive.
    Insomnia is not a PROBLEM – its a SYMPTOM – a difference kid
    Sleeping Pills – The Death Rattle to the Sleep System
    Sleeping pills are complete poison to your sleeping system. Sleeping pills often turn
    short term insomnia into chronic insomnia.
    Powerful Sleep – Secrets of the Inner Sleep Clock
    by Kacper M. Postawski, PowerfulSleep.com
    Copyright © 2004 PowerfulSleep.com All Rights Reserved
    46
    During the mid 19th century the only type of sleeping pills available were
    Barbiturates. These pills were very dangerous and only an over dose of about 10
    was enough to kill you. Marilyn Monroe died of over-dosing on Barbiturates.
    Currently there are about 4 different types of sleeping pills.
    1) Benzodiazepines (commonly referred to as BZs)
    2) Anti-Depressants
    3) Over the Counter Drugs
    4) Synthetic Melatonin
    We will not go over the details of how these pills work, and the side effects of each
    one as it would go beyond the scope of the ebook.
    Sleeping pills may put a person to sleep; however, they have many side effects and
    leave chemicals in your body which can stay in your blood for up to 6 days! The side
    effects of these chemicals are often day-time drowsiness, nausea, blurred vision,
    weakness, loss of appetite, and in some cases very frequent urination.
    The National Institute of Health recommends that sleeping pills be prescribed to
    patients for a maximum of 4-6 weeks as the body does become habituated to
    sleeping pills after a few weeks, and they lose their effectiveness. However, most
    doctors prescribe them for months! or in some cases even YEARS! Sleeping pills
    perpetuate insomnia because they support the belief that insomnia is a ”disease”
    that has to be cured with pills. As you know by now, sleeping is an inner system that
    is very easily corrected if you know the mechanics of it! The main reason why
    doctors prescribe sleeping pills is because they simply don’t want to deal with the
    patient’s sleeping problem, as most doctors only receive about 1 hour of training on
    sleeping problems, prescribing pills seems like a very easy solution. Patients often
    become psychologically dependant on the drugs and end up taking them for years;
    enduring the side effects which make their lives more miserable than BEFORE they
    had sleeping problems.
    Most sleeping pills work by depressing the activity of the brain, and forcing lower
    brain waves. Because of the nature of how sleeping pills work they deprive you of
    deep sleep. While you may get a full 7 or 8 hours of sleep, the sleep will be of very
    low quality, leaving you with side effects that can last for days.
    Write down at which time you are MOST awake too

  8. Anjali R says:

    this use to happen to me soo i stayed up late untill i was tired them i got right to bed…or keep a fan running and contrate on that noise to heplp u get to sleep….ir u could always take pills but hey its all in your head like tom cruise said

  9. orange says:

    SIMPLY DO SOME MASCULAR EFFORT

  10. MANSO says:

    I would recommend seeing a physician who is board certified by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine (AASM). You will probably be required to fill out a few forms (sleep diary, sleep questionnaire, Epworth sleepiness scale). Based on your initial evaluation, your physician should be able to assess your situation and determine whether a sleep aid will help or if there is another underlying problem (which would be uncovered in a sleep study).

  11. Had I Known Then says:

    Speak with a doctor who will help you .

  12. David K says:

    if you are still awake 1/2 hour after you go to bed, stop trying to sleep. read a book, or write a letter, or do some homework, or something. get out of the mindtrap of “i have to go to sleep”. when you get too tired to do what you’re doing, try again. but again, if you don’t fall asleep in half an hour, stop trying.
    in fact, you might have better luck if you decide you are going to stay awake. the same sort of thing that keeps some people awake when they are trying to sleep will put them to sleep when they are trying to stay awake.

  13. holdm says:

    I’m going for a sleep study in July,a stay overnight with all kinds of wires hooked to me. I’m told it is the best way to go.

  14. Bob says:

    Limit caffeine intake to mornings only, dont go to bed until you are actually tired enough to sleep. Relaxing each muscle starting at the toes, tighten and hold for 5 sec, then relax doing this all the way from head to toe, will relax you enough to fall asleep.

  15. helper says:

    I’ve been in that situation over the past year or so.
    Some of the things that I do that work for me are the following:
    I try to get some aerobic exercise, NOT within 2 hours of sleep-time.
    Warm milk before going to bed.
    If I’m trying to get used to going to sleep earlier, I try to get some rest, and not worry about whether I actually sleep right away. I work on it over a period of a couple of weeks.
    I’ve read that melatonin, the natural relaxant hormone declines with age. I tried to use some as a sleep aid and found that not only did it not help me sleep, it also made me dizzy the next day!
    I found that relaxing music before I went to sleep, and a calm, confident chant as I was trying to sleep were very helpful.
    Oh… And lest we forget, amorous activities can be helpful, I’m told… Works for me, lol!

  16. Chester C says:

    same here and my hubby passes out in less than a minute, sucks! i take some nyquil or some tylenol sinus and it knocks me out.

  17. matsystu says:

    Go to your doctor and see if you can get a sleeping aid. I am going to do the same thing.

  18. ☆Zestee☆ says:

    smoke some weed !

  19. getdayay says:

    Not being able to get to sleep is called insomnia. It can be caused by a wide variety of things: too much caffeine, stress, visual stimulation, too much noise, etc.
    For information on how to get a good night’s sleep, or what’s called good sleep hygeine, check out this website at Stanford University:http://www.stanford.edu/~dement/howto.ht…
    If you are unable to sleep even with these suggestions, seek help from your primary care doctor. There may be a medical reason you can’t get to sleep.
    Good luck.

  20. Barbara H says:

    Depends on your age. If you’re young, chances are great it’s due to hormones.
    I’ve had tremendous sleeping problems, and I’ve tried pretty much every sleep med out there.
    I take Ambien 10mg (NOT CR) every other night.
    Try exercising, don’t rest during the day, see a counselor if you have trouble sleeping due to thinking about things, drink a glass of warm milk before bed, don’t spend too much time in your bedroom until you are actually ready to go to bed, read something boring, make sleeping a routine and go to bed at the same time every night.
    If all of the above do not help, see a physician and try some meds. I’d go with Lunesta or Trazodone first, as they are not as addictives as Ambien.
    Good luck!

  21. ShaunAve says:

    It may be that you are stressed. Go and talk it through with your doctor who will be able to prescribe something to help.

  22. lix says:

    Have you tried valerian root or meditation?
    Some times Tension Tamer tea helps people to sleep.

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